The simple truth: happiness emerges not from chasing it, but from doing work that lights you up—like helping thousands of professionals decode AI's complexity each day.

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TL;DR

You don’t get happier by chasing happiness directly. You get happier by doing meaningful work that engages your skills and helps others. For meā€Šā€”ā€Šthat’s researching, curating, and teaching AI to 4,000+ business leaders daily through First AI Movers. The science shows that:

  1. social pressure to ā€œbe happyā€ can undermine well‑being,Ā 

  2. flow and meaningful work drive satisfaction and resilience, andĀ 

  3. helping othersā€Šā€”ā€Šincluding sharing AI know‑howā€Šā€”ā€Šboosts connection and purpose.

The simpleĀ truth

Happiness isn’t something you pursue like a KPIā€Šā€”ā€Šit’s a byproduct of meaningful activity. When I structure my day around AI research, synthesis, and teachingā€Šā€”ā€Šthe core of purpose‑driven AI leadershipā€Šā€”ā€Šmy average happiness rises because I’m creating value for others. Research supports this: cross‑national work finds that pressure to feel happy correlates with lower well‑being, especially in countries that rank high on the World Happiness Indexā€Šā€”ā€Še.g., the Netherlandsā€Šā€”ā€Šwhere the negative association is almost twice as strong as in lower‑ranking nations.

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Key idea: Happiness is a side effect of work that engages your deepest skills and valuesā€Šā€”ā€Šnot the result of chasing happiness itself.

Flow, notĀ FOMO

Psychologist MihĆ”ly CsĆ­kszentmihĆ”lyi showed that durable satisfaction comes from flow: total absorption in a challenging activity with clear goals and immediate feedbackā€Šā€”ā€Šconditions that match how I research, analyze, and teach AI daily. Flow’s core ingredients—goal clarity, feedback, and a challenge–skill match—map directly to the way I build each First AI Movers briefing.

Recent longitudinal evidence shows that flow predicts well‑being over time (not just in the moment), with psychological resilience acting as a mediator.

Why teaching others multiplies fulfillment

My missionā€Šā€”ā€Šhelping companies implement AI correctlyā€Šā€”ā€Šisn’t only altruistic; it’s psychologically sound. A 2023 peer‑reviewed study finds that meaningful work, feeling appreciated, and enjoying daily tasks significantly predict happiness at work and reduce turnover intentions. The lesson for executives: aligning roles with purpose is a high‑leverage move for both well‑being and retention.Ā 

Under the lens of Self‑Determination Theory, we thrive when work satisfies three basic psychological needs: competence, autonomy, and relatedness. Creating and sharing AI playbooks checks all three: I deepen mastery (competence), choose how to frame insights (autonomy), and build a community of practice (relatedness).Ā 

How my current happiness adds up (yes, literally)

Using a simple 1–10 scale for my core daily activities:

  • AI research & analysisā€Šā€”ā€Š9/10

  • Writing the daily newsletterā€Šā€”ā€Š8/10

  • Executive consulting on AI transformationā€Šā€”ā€Š10/10

  • Community building with First AI Moversā€Šā€”ā€Š8/10

  • Learning new AI developmentsā€Šā€”ā€Š9/10

Average happiness score: 8.8/10. Compared with many traditional corporate roles that anecdotally average 3–5/10, the activity mix alone creates a substantial advantage in day‑to‑day well‑being. Note: This is illustrative, not a clinical measure.

Why AI knowledge sharing for executives is perfect forĀ flow

  • Complete involvement: Deep dives into emerging AI capabilities, constraints, and enterprise risks demandā€Šā€”ā€Šand rewardā€Šā€”ā€Šfocus.

  • Clear goals: Every brief aims to inform, de‑risk, and enable action for leaders.

  • Immediate feedback: Reader replies, subscriber growth, and client outcomes offer fast signals.

  • Challenge–skill balance: AI evolves at a rapid pace, stretching me while leveraging over 25 years of experience in tech.

  • Intrinsic motivation: I’d do this even without the revenue because the learning loops and impact are inherently satisfying.

From individual joy to organizational impact

The compound effects are real. One executive who implements AI responsibly can influence an entire organization; one well-timed newsletter can de-risk AI deployment for hundreds of teams.

Empirically, AI adoption can promote employee knowledge sharing by expanding learning opportunitiesā€Šā€”ā€Šespecially under paradoxical (both/and) leadership and among technophile employees. For leaders, modeling open, evidence‑based AI knowledge sharing creates positive feedback loops across functions.Ā 

Complementary work also links AI, knowledge sharing, and organizational performance. The message for the C‑suite: pair tooling with culture and leadership behaviors that reward learning and sharing.Ā 

The happiness equation (and a call toĀ action)

I didn’t ā€œfindā€ happiness; I designed a systemā€Šā€”ā€Šone that combines research, synthesis, teaching, and communityā€Šā€”ā€Šthat produces it as a byproduct of helping others navigate AI complexity. The literature on flow, meaningful work, and self‑determination predicts exactly this pattern. If you’re an executive aiming for purpose‑driven AI leadership, start small:

  1. Ship one beneficial AI note a day to your team (pattern: problem → principle → practice).

  2. Instrument feedback loops (what got used? what changed?).

  3. Reward sharing and learning, not just output.

That’s how you build a culture where happinessā€Šā€”ā€Šand performanceā€Šā€”ā€Šarrive as side effects of meaningful, compounding work.

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Hi, my name is Dr. Hernani Costa, Founder of First AI Movers. For inquiries and partnerships, contact me at info at firstaimovers dot com; or message me on LinkedIn.

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