The simple truth: happiness emerges not from chasing it, but from doing work that lights you upālike helping thousands of professionals decode AI's complexity each day.

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TL;DR
You donāt get happier by chasing happiness directly. You get happier by doing meaningful work that engages your skills and helps others. For meāāāthatās researching, curating, and teaching AI to 4,000+ business leaders daily through First AI Movers. The science shows that:
social pressure to ābe happyā can undermine wellābeing,Ā
flow and meaningful work drive satisfaction and resilience, andĀ
helping othersāāāincluding sharing AI knowāhowāāāboosts connection and purpose.
The simpleĀ truth
Happiness isnāt something you pursue like a KPIāāāitās a byproduct of meaningful activity. When I structure my day around AI research, synthesis, and teachingāāāthe core of purposeādriven AI leadershipāāāmy average happiness rises because Iām creating value for others. Research supports this: crossānational work finds that pressure to feel happy correlates with lower wellābeing, especially in countries that rank high on the World Happiness Indexāāāe.g., the Netherlandsāāāwhere the negative association is almost twice as strong as in lowerāranking nations.
Key idea: Happiness is a side effect of work that engages your deepest skills and valuesāāānot the result of chasing happiness itself.
Flow, notĀ FOMO
Psychologist MihĆ”ly CsĆkszentmihĆ”lyi showed that durable satisfaction comes from flow: total absorption in a challenging activity with clear goals and immediate feedbackāāāconditions that match how I research, analyze, and teach AI daily. Flowās core ingredientsāgoal clarity, feedback, and a challengeāskill matchāmap directly to the way I build each First AI Movers briefing.
Recent longitudinal evidence shows that flow predicts wellābeing over time (not just in the moment), with psychological resilience acting as a mediator.
Why teaching others multiplies fulfillment
My missionāāāhelping companies implement AI correctlyāāāisnāt only altruistic; itās psychologically sound. A 2023 peerāreviewed study finds that meaningful work, feeling appreciated, and enjoying daily tasks significantly predict happiness at work and reduce turnover intentions. The lesson for executives: aligning roles with purpose is a highāleverage move for both wellābeing and retention.Ā
Under the lens of SelfāDetermination Theory, we thrive when work satisfies three basic psychological needs: competence, autonomy, and relatedness. Creating and sharing AI playbooks checks all three: I deepen mastery (competence), choose how to frame insights (autonomy), and build a community of practice (relatedness).Ā
How my current happiness adds up (yes, literally)
Using a simple 1ā10 scale for my core daily activities:
AI research & analysisāāā9/10
Writing the daily newsletterāāā8/10
Executive consulting on AI transformationāāā10/10
Community building with First AI Moversāāā8/10
Learning new AI developmentsāāā9/10
Average happiness score: 8.8/10. Compared with many traditional corporate roles that anecdotally average 3ā5/10, the activity mix alone creates a substantial advantage in dayātoāday wellābeing. Note: This is illustrative, not a clinical measure.
Why AI knowledge sharing for executives is perfect forĀ flow
Complete involvement: Deep dives into emerging AI capabilities, constraints, and enterprise risks demandāāāand rewardāāāfocus.
Clear goals: Every brief aims to inform, deārisk, and enable action for leaders.
Immediate feedback: Reader replies, subscriber growth, and client outcomes offer fast signals.
Challengeāskill balance: AI evolves at a rapid pace, stretching me while leveraging over 25 years of experience in tech.
Intrinsic motivation: Iād do this even without the revenue because the learning loops and impact are inherently satisfying.
From individual joy to organizational impact
The compound effects are real. One executive who implements AI responsibly can influence an entire organization; one well-timed newsletter can de-risk AI deployment for hundreds of teams.
Empirically, AI adoption can promote employee knowledge sharing by expanding learning opportunitiesāāāespecially under paradoxical (both/and) leadership and among technophile employees. For leaders, modeling open, evidenceābased AI knowledge sharing creates positive feedback loops across functions.Ā
Complementary work also links AI, knowledge sharing, and organizational performance. The message for the Cāsuite: pair tooling with culture and leadership behaviors that reward learning and sharing.Ā
The happiness equation (and a call toĀ action)
I didnāt āfindā happiness; I designed a systemāāāone that combines research, synthesis, teaching, and communityāāāthat produces it as a byproduct of helping others navigate AI complexity. The literature on flow, meaningful work, and selfādetermination predicts exactly this pattern. If youāre an executive aiming for purposeādriven AI leadership, start small:
Ship one beneficial AI note a day to your team (pattern: problem ā principle ā practice).
Instrument feedback loops (what got used? what changed?).
Reward sharing and learning, not just output.
Thatās how you build a culture where happinessāāāand performanceāāāarrive as side effects of meaningful, compounding work.
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Hi, my name is Dr. Hernani Costa, Founder of First AI Movers. For inquiries and partnerships, contact me at info at firstaimovers dot com; or message me on LinkedIn.





